Husband is hoarding money and jeopardizing relationship

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DEBT SCARES MAN TO THE BANK   Believe it or not there are people who have money hoarding tendencies because a fear of living without cash can push people over the edge. Just because someone is in debt doesn’t mean they are OK with it even though some people think that having consumer debt is normal. Some people get very ill thinking about their debt and it can cause great stress in their life mostly affecting their health, job and relationships/family. What else could money possibly affect? It’s hard to find a middle ground sometimes when money becomes the reason for living. I’m not saying money is NOT important because it is but for those who scare themselves off a cliff it’s serious business. Having millions of dollars in the bank when retirement comes around would be great but you don’t have to live like a miser to get you there. Even though compulsive hoarding is defined as hanging on to stuff that others may view as junk hoarding money is another way of stashing cash which someone is too afraid to spend unless they are forced to. ie: Paying the bills to live . Maybe hoarding might not be […]

Is Reducing homelessness by creating housing worth it? : The Saturday Weekend Review #121

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Soldier Of Your Own Dream   I have always been intrigued about homelessness because I often wonder why it even exists in a country that has so many resources. There is no reason so many people are homeless for so long. It makes no sense to me unless they don’t want to be helped which is certainly a possibility if you’ve become so accustomed to a way of life. At the end of the day I’m sure it’s safe to say that we all want a place to lay our head that is safe and food that will fill our tummy and clothes to keep us warm. Did you know that homelessness costs the Canadian economy a whopping 7 Billion dollars annually and if that number doesn’t blow you away or push you towards tightening the budget, nothing will. In Canada, though the median length of stay in emergency shelter is approximately 50 days, most people are homeless for less than a month (29% stay only one night), and manage to leave homelessness on their own, usually with little support.- Homeless Hub Canada I often wonder what we are doing to try and combat the situation so we can get […]

Couple on the Debt Binge Train to rid of $40,000 : The Saturday Weekend Review #120

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THE GIFT OF DEBT FREEDOM   I’m excited to share this amazing journey about a couple who are 18 months away from paying off $40,000 worth of consumer debt. Do you want to know how they are getting rid of their debt? It’s easy…they spend less than they earn and they are budgeting. I hope you weren’t expecting some wild formulas or the easy way out because there are none.   Couple tackling debt   Canadian Budget Binder fans Jen Peacock, 36 and Ken Blowes, 35  from Georgetown, Ontario shared their debt payback story with the world in a video at the The Globe and Mail online. I was humbled to hear how much I had influenced their budgeting journey but as you all know I worked pretty close with the Jen and Ken to help them along because I knew Jen was serious and needed the help. This is probably a Mother’s Day she won’t forget because it’s been an on-going battle with debt where they can now “finally see the light“. Since Jen first chatted with me at CBB she has written “Budgeting with Mr.CBB got us Back on Track” as well as their struggle with infertility. Jen […]

How a To-Do List Stopped me from Playing Superhero with my Life : April 2015 Budget Update

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ORGANIZE YOUR LIFE AND WATCH IT GROW   Life would be great if I could remember everything I needed to do in my head without having to consult a to-do list but that will never happen for me. When you decide to get organized with something in your life you almost feel like weight is lifted off your shoulders. I’ve made the mistake once in my life when I let work get the best of me where I then let things slip at home. My life was a bit of a chaotic mess during this time period because I was young and working as many hours as I could fit in while I could. I wasn’t a money hoarder or work-a-holic I just didn’t mind working for money and having the ability to save so I could afford holidays while paying down my mortgage faster. In the meantime I wasn’t completing all the tasks in a home I bought in my early 20’s because balance was hard for me. As a young guy I didn’t know everything. Who’s perfect after all? Nobody. Life is all about experimenting and learning from our mistakes and I did just that. My mind was […]

Why financial advice from rich people makes sense

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FIND YOUR MONEY SUCCESS   Rich people are all around us and I’m betting most of them worked pretty hard to get where they are. Not all rich people are shady investors or business people but let’s be honest, we know they exist. The truth is there are many successful people who achieved their goals because they put in the effort. Not everyone has a top-notch career or thriving business bloom out of sheer luck. When it comes to our own finances it may be soothing to talk to anyone who will listen, but learning about how to fix your money situation from the wrong people can slow down progress. If you find yourself in a financial mess why would you seek advice from people who are in the same money crisis as you? If they can’t even get their own finances in order taking financial advice from them may not be in your best interest. That’s the truth. It’s a serious matter that too often people push aside because they think they will never find their way out of debt when all it takes is a bit of homework and dedication.   Who are these rich people?   You […]

How do you save money?

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THERE’S ALWAYS A WAY   I want to learn more about the savings task that so many people struggle with. So tell me, How do you save money? We all tend to save money a little differently but for many reasons not necessarily for the long-term. Today I want to walk you through conversations I’ve had with a homeless person and a homeowner to understand how saving money differs depending on lifestyle.   Save money…. What is that?   So many people laugh when they read about saving money because they believe there is no such thing. This is a common mindset we have because we believe that if we don’t have excess every month then there is no possible way. Most people who do manage to save, find a way. There’s more to saving money than living frugal meaning you save money on sales etc. People easily overspend while simply shopping for food and other items on sale. That’s why the term “window shopping” is the best way to shop if you don’t really need to buy anything. Leave your wallet at home. Do we really know where our money is going?   A homeowners struggle to save money […]

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How to find Love at the Grocery Store: The Grocery Game Challenge #5 Mar 30-Apr 5, 2015

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LIVE, LAUGH, LOVE AND GROCERY SHOP   If you have a love affair with the grocery store and are single, I’m going to tell you how to find love while roaming the food aisles. Most people are looking in all the wrong places for love and doing the deed isn’t going to be your fast-track way to the alter either. There’s more to finding love than what happens in the bedroom. Sadly the first place that comes to mind for those who want to find love is by going to the bar. The bar dating scene is so old these days especially with free online dating sites like Plenty of Fish and even apps for your smart phone that it has taken on an entirely new direction. The problem with the meet at the bar mindset is that it’s always been where people go to enjoy drinks, dance and meet people. In one sense we are conditioned from the time we are in University and College that the bar scene is where people hook up because that’s where students go to unwind and have fun. It’s time to think outside of the clubs because there are more places to find […]

Saving almost 50% of his Gross Income is no longer a dream

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YES THAT’S BEFORE TAXES   In my February 2015 net worth update post I mentioned I was saving approximately 50% of my gross income – my goal for 2015 is 45%. The reason I set this goal is my expenses in life right now are likely the lowest they will ever be for the rest of my life (not married, no kids, modest house), so it’s important to focus on savings while the going is good. I suspect that my salary will increase at a modest rate for the next few decades; however, my expenses will increase at a higher rate. The key thing about my savings rate is a lot of it is a result of preemptive planning. Below I’ll tackle each piece of my expenses and discuss tips and ideas on how you can trim these down in your own budget.   Government deductions   The government seems to always have his hand in our pocket. This expense is without question my largest, which requires some careful planning to ensure I’m not needlessly paying too much. The main focus of any budget conscious taxpayer should be to legally minimize taxes in a cost-effective manner. As a chartered accountant […]

Building our dream house could mean another mortgage : February 2015 Net Worth Update (+1.99%)

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WE DON’T ALWAYS GET WHAT WE WANT   The mortgage is gone, vanished, disappeared and you own your house but now you want something more. Do you stay put, sell or build your dream house? This is the burning question at the back of our minds lately. Let me explain more. When I bought my first home at 21 my dream house always included large rooms because space came and still does with a premium price-tag. If you’re like me you enjoy having space BUT not everyone NEEDS a large space to get on with daily living. Every day we read about people who live in a tiny house and find ways to make it work for them. This type of living is NOT for everyone. Your dream house compared to someone else’s idea of a cool house will ALWAYS be different because our needs are not the same. We tend to focus on things in life that will help us to meet or exceed our needs especially if settling is NOT an option. Dream house living for some people may simply be…living in any type of house rather than an apartment or vice-versa. You might be the person who […]