Poverty Stories: Growing Up Poor Made Me Rich But Not Happy

SOMETIMES WE KEEP LOCKED UP THINGS THAT HURT US THE MOST.   Fan Submission to Poverty Stories My parents married when they were 17 years old back in the early 70’s and lived in a town just outside of Toronto. Shortly after I was born into what was a loving family environment that did what normal families do. This was the happiest and scariest moments for my parents because financially they were just getting started. Luckily both of their parents lived in the same city and they were able to get help from them with babysitting and anything else they needed. Both my parents are the youngest of many siblings who watched their brothers and sisters grow up to become successful in their careers.   Walk down the aisle   Back in the early 60’s and 70’s it wasn’t uncommon to get married before the age of 20 years old so naturally having a baby was the next step. My mother was an accomplished musician among her peers and my father followed his passion as a plumber in the trades. By the time they were in their mid-twenties they were both working steady jobs and life was getting busy. My […]

Why The Financial Super Can’t Solve Your Debt Problems : February Net Worth Update (+1.34%)

IT’S TIME TO CLEAN UP YOUR FINANCIAL HOUSE AND GET ON WITH LIVING.   If you have outstanding debt then you have debt problems however not all debt puts a consumer in crisis mode. If all you can afford is the minimum payment on your bills ask yourself if this is the life you want? If you answered yes then be on your way and do as you please. Just don’t be surprised if you get to point B (Bankruptcy) when everyone else is celebrating their debt problems with debt wins. You are the only person that can solve your debt problems but along the way you may just run into someone who is willing to lend a helping hand or even an ear for listening. I like to think of myself as The Financial Super to many of my readers. This person could also be family, friends, a boss, co-worker, stranger on a bench or even a crazy Brit personal finance blogger like me.   Don’t feel sorry feel strength   If you answered No, then great you’re the person I want to talk to today. No one likes to have debt problems that have spiraled out of control […]

A financial panic attack cost one guy thousands : October 2014 Net Worth Update (-0.06%)

STAY CALM WHEN DEALING WITH MONEY   One of the first things my wife said to me this month was “Why do we have a negative net worth statement for October?” and right then I knew she was starting into her financial panic attack mode. Don’t laugh because some people really do suffer from anxiety and in some cases a panic attack when they know their finances are potentially in danger. Some people might have grown up in families who suffered financial loss, watched their parents lose everything, low-income, suffered disability or job loss etc. which triggers financial hoarding tendencies like my wife. When I say hoarding I simply mean they struggle to let go of their money or they make sure that they have money stashed away so that they will be safe if something were to happen. There are people who are scared to let go of their money let alone have someone invest it for them or even worse investing it themselves for fear they screw up. My wife isn’t scared to that extent but she wants to know exactly what is happening every step of the way. I didn’t have to worry about her having debt […]

Couple’s happy retirement on hold until son moves out

HANDS OFF THE RETIREMENT POT   Enjoying a happy retirement for many couples means that they are able to use the money they saved to live out their retirement dreams and fund everyday expenses. For some young adults living at home can be embarrassing and for others it’s a great way to save up cash, pay down debt and to start life on their own. What happens though when the money you save for retirement is being spent on your kids because they move back home and/or always in need of cash?   Moving back home with the parents   Parenting is a hot topic no matter what age your children are but none the less it’s still a hardship many parents face when they don’t have the answers. Sometimes the solution is easily solved and other times it’s a sensitive matter especially when it has to deal with finances and life in general. I’m pretty sure some parents out there wish that their kids are only sticking around for a short period to save up money to move out on their own. There are kids though that have no intentions but to live off their parents hard-earned money because […]