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Jesus Crucifixion

Today is Good Friday, a religious holiday for many Christians which is celebrated the Friday before Easter Sunday all around the world.  It’s a time to commemorate the crucifixion and death of Jesus Christ. Since we observe this holiday, along with an afternoon mass we will be serving this day as a day of fasting eating one full meal and 2 smaller meals which are normally light meals. Others will be celebrating Easter this weekend with family traditions and lots of  Easter Chocolate and egg hunts.

Easy Good Friday Meals

Good Friday Fish with Rice and Lentils

Tonight we will be making a meatless meal which will be a lightly fried fish served over lentils and rice a tradition we started last year and hope to continue each year. Another great meal that my friend Megan at Cooking Whim’s posted is a lentil Sheppard’s pie which is another easy frugal Good Friday meal to make for the family. I’ll be posting my version soon but check hers out it looks delicious!

Lentil Sheperd's Pie

You could also go modern and try my meatless lentil Sloppy Joe recipe for some new and exciting at the table that the kids might just love. Come Easter Sunday if you want to hang out with your friends and family instead of hanging out in the kitchen you can throw together this frugal recipe Easter Dinner in the Crock-pot!

Meeting Gail VazOxlade

Gail VazOxlade and Barb

No, I wasn’t the one who met Gail Vaz-Oxlade but maybe one day her and I can meet up for coffee and talk Money since we both love helping others save money (wishful thinking). Unless you live under a rock you already know Gail is a personal finance icon in Canada. She has been welcomed into many homes in order to help people kick-start their budgeting journey. I’m sure you’ve all watched Princess and Til Debt Do Us Part and now her new show Money Moron is about to blow us all away in April.

I’ve read all of her books although I have yet to get my hands on a copy of Money Rules as I wouldn’t mind giving it a read. Everything that Gail says is pretty much easy peasy for us but for others it’s life altering. We all have to start from somewhere though. Learning how to manage money while managing a relationship can be tough going.

When I started Canadian Budget Binder it was because I had this inherent desire to share with people how we were able to get ahead by planning and later using a budget spreadsheet that we designed “The CBBS” we call it. That is “The Canadian Budget Binder Spreadsheet” and not only has it helped us it has helped one CBB fan get her family finances back on track. It’s nothing fancy because a budget doesn’t need to have all those confusing gadgets, bells and whistles, just a basic budget that keeps us on track.

Budgeting is not rocket science,“It’s not about how much money you make, it’s how you save it“, in other-words  spend less than you earn. My mate Johnny talked about life and living like we are in a recession and in a way he’s right but we can also do that and enjoy life along the way with proper planning. A budget really does work especially for those that need the discipline when it comes to dipping their hand in the candy jar or shall we say money jar. I could never use the envelope or money jar budgeting systems because I have a tendency to spend more when I have cash but for those that need a starting point it’s a great first step in the right direction. You need to find the way that works best for you.

There’s no two ways around it, budgeting helps us realize our goals and for some it’s getting out of debt first, then save. Although our budgeting system is far different from Gail’s it’s has the same premise behind it, document your expenses, budget your net income, invest and spend less than you earn. Gail has helped so many people in Canada get back on track and saved their marriages with those relationship rescues. I also believe money is the leading cause of  divorce and it will only get worse if we don’t take control, now.

Canadian Budget Binder is not just about budgets it’s about everything that’s inside that budget…. life! We see those families on the shows and wonder if they keep on budgeting and whether they were able to stay on track using the money lessons they learned. I’m sure Gail will agree that no matter how you do it, what budget or plan you use, start today! Sometimes an early start makes all the difference down the road.

One of my awesome CBB fans met Gail a few days ago at Seneca College and she was thrilled to announce it on the Canadian Budget Binder Facebook Page. I was amazed at the joy that someone can bring to another’s life just by reaching out, talking, motivating and helping them. Gail you are a true inspiration to so many people. I also enjoy seeing people smile and why I love to motivate others about money and finance even though I’m no star like Gail just a regular guy who just happens to be a budget nerd. So don’t sweat the small stuff when it comes to everyday life, think positive, be positive and you WILL make positive changes.

Here’s what Barb posted on my wall and what Barb had to say about meeting Gail in person. Oh, and Gail if you do read this, a big hello right back at ya!

-Mr.CBB

Gail and I hanging out before her event at Seneca College today :)
Mr. CBB, she says “hi” :)
Listening To Gail Speak

Last fall for a college English assignment, I chose to write a proposal about why the college should include a personal finance course as part of the standard curriculum. As an accounting and payroll student at Seneca College I have learned about the financial practices of business’s but have received no guidance in regards to managing my own money.  As a mature student, I have learned many lessons from decisions I made as a young adult and only wish someone had taught me then what I know now.

So when I saw a post on Facebook from Gail Vaz-Oxlade in regards to her upcoming tour, I jumped at the chance to see if maybe, just maybe, she would come to Seneca to talk about her new book “Money Rules-Rule Your Money of Your Money will Rule You.”   What started off only as a possibility became a reality yesterday when I was able to meet Gail Vaz-Oxlade and listen to her share her knowledge with the standing room only audience of my fellow classmates and Seneca staff.

Gail is an amazing woman.  Her passion, energy and laugh fill a room. I had both the honour and privilege of spending some time with her before the event and I can truly say that she is a woman of inspiration. I was personally touched by our conversation and am grateful for the “light bulb” moments that will guide me in changing my life!

Here are several of the messages that struck a chord with me while listening to Gail speak:

  1. Have a spending journal which has your bank account balance in it and after every purchase you make or cheque you write, deduct it from the balance. That way you always know exactly how much money you have
  2. It is imperative to live within your means and don’t fool yourself otherwise. The millionaires with the fancy homes on TV are not the “Jones’s”, so unless you are making the same money as them, don’t try to keep up with them
  3. Pay with cash as you have an emotional connection with it (anyone who’s ever experienced the joy of making a special purchase or the remorse of a bad choice will understand this one)
  4. You work hard for your money, so make your money work for you
  5. Make sure you have a financial plan, savings, RRSP’s, insurance, will and power of attorney
  6. Buy life and disability insurance when you are young so you can get it cheaper while you are your healthiest
  7. Don’t buy insurance from banks and never buy mortgage life insurance
  8. Live your life fully, stand by your values, and do what makes you happy J

I encourage everyone to check out Gail’s new book and her new show Money Moron airing April 19th .  On a final note, on March 26 Gail posted the following message : “Believe that you CAN.  Believe with all your heart.  Then watch you go!”  …. I believed

Barbara Foster

Thanks Barb for sharing this with us here at Canadian Budget Binder and I’m sure Gail will be thrilled to read how she has inspired and touched your life with her actions and words.

Personal Finance Weekly Reading List

PF WEEKLY READING LIST

Here is this weeks reading list which includes some of the best blog posts from many blogs that I interact and comment on and who also have a common interest in CBB. I’ve received a few emails from fans who say the smaller list is much better for them to read through so I’m happy with this change. It’s great to hear that the fans actually take the time to read these posts and follow the blogs that I present to them. I can’t do this without all of you and I have so many people to thank for our growth, so THANKS!!

I hope you all enjoy this weeks round-up.

-Mr.CBB

  1. Three Money Myths Parents Need To Stop Believing - The Heavy Purse
  2. When Are You Happiest- Budget and The Beach
  3. How Do I Get A Downpayment (in Vancouver)-The Outlier Model
  4. Handling Your Money When Travelling Abroad-Frugal Rules
  5. We Flipped A House Part 2- Renovating a Distressed Property-Eyes On The Dollar
  6. Three Steps To Plan Your Portfolio-My Own Advisor
  7. Should I Invest or Pay Off Student Loans First?-Debt Round Up
  8. Home Insurance, Is It A Legal Requirement?-Money Bulldog UK
Recipes/Frugal Blog Posts of the Week
Inspirational or Funniest Post of the Week
  • Education Outside of The Classroom (and After Graduation)-Mo Money Mo Houses: Jessica shares a story about a meet up with her mentee and how information with a visual helps her to remember information easier than just reading a textbook. Many people believe that a visual is also a motivator. She explains that education doesn’t end after graduation and that is exactly what I always say. We need to keep improving our knowledge on what’s been happening in the world to stay informed. Jessica ends her post with something I believe we should all do. Like the Pops say though, sometimes you have to spend money to make money by investing in your career.

It’s honestly probably easier than ever to educate yourself with all of free materials available to us, and I for one want to make sure I’m taking advantage of what’s out there.

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Weekend Review

Parenting is a topic that is controversial because all parents want to believe they are doing the best they can for their children in order to prepare them in this world. I’ve talked about teaching children about money from a young age but apart from that the psychology behind why children do what they do is out of my realm of knowledge since we have no kids. Last week I talked a bit about a child who took a backpack from her parents home with $20k inside and gave it to a friend who later handed it out at school. Kids do strange things that we may never understand but how far should a parent go in order to dig deep into their child’s emotions to comprehend their actions and teach them a lesson.

I read this article about a 13-year-old girl in Crestview, Florida who lost her uncle in Afghanistan in 2011. The child then started to act up, but it was how far the parents took the situation which surprised me. Her parents felt like she gave up at home, at school and she became more defiant since she was so close to her uncle. Although they tried other means to get through to their daughter such as grounding her, which didn’t work they were lost on what else to do. So, they made her stand on a busy street corner in public, humiliating her by holding a sign in hopes of teaching her a lesson that read:

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The public took notice, people were taking pictures that ended up on Facebook as well the police showed up to make sure the child was OK. The parents said they wanted to call the child out on being “selfish” , “self-centred” and “entitled” but many parents spoke up who were not happy by their chosen method of parenting. Apparently the child was not traumatized and has improved since the incident. How far do parents need to go with child discipline? This isn’t the first time we’ve read about parents humiliating their children to teach them a lesson. Do some parents understand that the child might have underlying problems and that humiliating them is not solving the problem? Maybe a “positive discipline” for teenagers should be implemented as opposed to something that might stay with them emotionally for a long time.

What happened to counselling your child or working with professionals such as medical experts and teachers or is this a thing of the past?  Crikey, they might as well have put her on stage in front of her peers. There’s no doubt in my mind she is doing better after all of this. It’s likely in part because of all the attention but she also doesn’t want to rub her parents the wrong way again because who knows what else they will do to discipline her or teach her a lesson. I don’t know maybe I’m just out of the parenting loop, then again I’m not a parent but I was once a child.

Public Intervention

Maybe children view this type of parenting as the new norm because of all the reality television programs we see on the tele or posts in social media so it’s acceptable in their minds. I can understand if the child was a consenting adult and wanted to go on a television show like “princess” for example to say I want to change because I have felt entitled all my life. I have dug myself a hole of debt, please put me on television for the world to see so I can learn my lesson and change my ways.

Although that tactic is on a bigger scale than a street corner it also seems to also work on Gail’s other show “Til Debt Do Us Part” where we see couple’s willing to go on national TV telling the world their dirty money secrets instead of behind closed doors. Does public intervention work better than what is provided in private? Maybe the money is a motivator on these shows but for this couple their motivator was to teach their child a lesson while risking their child’s emotional response to their actions. My point is, I believe in some cases people will do whatever it takes as a last resort if they feel they have no other options like these parents felt.

You can read the full story here.

  • How far are you willing to go to teach your child a life lesson?
  • What would you have done differently here?
What’s Happening At The CBB House?

It’s been pretty quiet around here lately but the plants for our frugal garden seem to be sprouting on schedule so all we need now is to get rid of the snow so I can get outside and work on the landscaping. One fan did offer to landscape for free if I took over her weekly laundry chore at home. I thought that was a great deal since she makes extra money on the side with her skills in landscaping now if only I lived closer. I told her the wife does say that I am the best darn “laundry-boy” she’s ever met, usually with a sultry voice. Maybe the wife is just trying to butter me up but I am pretty critical about how the wash is hung and folded.

Nothing eats me up like laundry that is folded incorrectly (which my wife is very good at doing) which is why I took over this chore. She says she finds it sexy when a man can wash and fold laundry the way I do, so there are perks involved men. I could only imagine what would happen if I took out the iron. *wink

Other than that I’ve done alot of training at work as they always like to invest in filling my brain with updates which is fine with me. I’m a big advocate of continuous improvement and learning.

What’s Happening With  Canadian Budget Binder?

Not alot going on with CBB although the e-book I co-wrote with my fellow personal finance Bloggers “The A-Z Of Saving Money” was released this past week which we are all excited about. I hope you all get an opportunity to purchase this e-book and enjoy it as much as I do. My designer is working on the new blog design and I’m patiently waiting to hear back from him to check out his blog mock-up so we can toss more ideas around. Hopefully we will have a new site soon! If you have any suggestions at all for the blog or something you would like to see please email me asap so I can consider them.

I’ve also installed a forum over on my Facebook page for the fans to communicate with each other, ask questions and general chit-chat. If all goes well I’ll think about a forum for Canadian Budget Binder so the fans have a place of their own. My fans are my number one priority at Canadian Budget Binder because without all of you there would be no CBB! Thanks for your support!

It’s also been nice to have Bloggers that are new to me reach out, visit the blog and comment on my posts. Thanks for stopping by and connecting with me. If any Bloggers are interested in contributing to CBB please read my guest contribution guidelines and contact me today! I’m always up for sharing a great personal story.

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Win! $250 Cash and a copy of the A-Z of Saving Money E-BookClick HERE to enter now! Contest open to everyone around the world. This contest runs from March 18th 2013 to April 1st 2013. At the end of the contest a winner will be randomly drawn to win a free copy of the e-book titled – “The A-Z of Saving Money and $250 cash”.

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  • Christine Weadick
  • Jen Peacock
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  • Wendy LeDrew
  • Juanita Paul
  • Beth Anne
  • Katrina Bearinger
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web search terms

Google Search terms really help me to understand what people are looking for at Canadian Budget Binder! Any typos below are simply how the person who searched Google and typed it in search incorrectly, or me ;-) Another week of thousands of search terms but only a few good ones worth mentioning.

Top Pick: How To Make A Positive Pregnancy Test- Now I’m going to go out on a limb and say she wants to have a baby pretty bad OR someone is trying to fool someone into thinking they are the baby daddy……

Top Search Terms:

  • Home Hardware Stores in Guatemala- I had no idea they had Home Hardware although we should just ask our friend Pauline who lives in Guatemala!
  • My husband smokes,how to save money on cigarettes in Ontario- QUIT! I know it’s easier said then done but there really is no cigarette coupons or deals that I am aware of unless you buy 3 packs for x amount of go to the Indian reserve for cheap smokes or some back of the truck shady person who sells them for cheap.
  • Can you actually get good clothes at Value Village? – Just go in and find out~ depends on what you define as “good”
  • I just paid off my OSAP can I get a new loan? – It’s like a revolving door isn’t it?
  • Do women always want a man with money? There are other qualities they look for but if you don’t have them money seems to work.
  • How can we make custard a food?- That’s like asking if we can turn a chocolate bar into a vegetable lol

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