How to kung fu your way out of money manipulation

The Master Manipulator Gets What They Want I don’t know how true that is about a master manipulator but you can bet they started their mental manipulative techniques from a young age even if they didn’t realize they were doing it. Most people have no idea the way they come across to other people which can make them seem as if they are manipulators who always want something for nothing. They may also try to make someone feel awful if they don’t give in to the psychological manipulation that some people bestow upon them because they think they can. Manipulators Some of us are used to being taken advantage of at work when co-workers or even management rely on them so heavily that you feel guilty when you say no or they almost manipulate you into feeling that you are the only one to get the job done. That’s a tough spot to be in but so is when people especially loved ones use manipulators to get what they want from you including your money. While my friend a single-parent was visiting with his daughter recently I wanted to work with them both to show his daughter that not everything […]

The costs of being too nice

Our Footprints Leave Our Mark On Life Is being too nice a bad thing? Only you can answer that question but for many people on the outside looking in the picture is crystal clear. Most often it’s quite apparent when you can see others who might be taking advantage of someone’s good nature although it may not be intentional it’s a dependency that happens because it’s allowed. Today my wife shares a bit about her mother growing up and how she was the go-to mom for all of her friends and for her and her siblings. I also talk about my best friend who is a one in a million guy, unique at best but certainly worth having around as a great mate and how his life is surrounded by giving up his time for his loved one’s. Mrs. CBB When I grew up my mother and father were and still are very caring people especially my mother who enjoyed hanging around with us and chilling out which no one seemed too worried about. I’m pretty sure my friends would wonder what was up if they came over and my mother wasn’t around to ask them if they wanted something […]

The Saturday Weekend Review #12- Is Public Intervention The New Norm?

Parenting is a topic that is controversial because all parents want to believe they are doing the best they can for their children in order to prepare them in this world. I’ve talked about teaching children about money from a young age but apart from that the psychology behind why children do what they do is out of my realm of knowledge since we have no kids. Last week I talked a bit about a child who took a backpack from her parents home with $20k inside and gave it to a friend who later handed it out at school. Kids do strange things that we may never understand but how far should a parent go in order to dig deep into their child’s emotions to comprehend their actions and teach them a lesson. I read this article about a 13-year-old girl in Crestview, Florida who lost her uncle in Afghanistan in 2011. The child then started to act up, but it was how far the parents took the situation which surprised me. Her parents felt like she gave up at home, at school and she became more defiant since she was so close to her uncle. Although they tried other […]

How I Support My Family On One Income

IT IS POSSIBLE TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR FAMILY ON ONE INCOME   This is a Guest Post written by Tanya a CBB fan sharing her story about how she supports her family on one income in hopes to inspire others. Tanya’s Story: I live in Prince Edward Island with my two young children. Money wasn’t always streaming in to my bank account, but we were able to get by. The bills were being paid, we had just bought a house and we were comfortable. When I was pregnant with my second child, I ended up being put on sick leave. With my pay gone and my sick benefits nowhere in site yet, things started to get tight. With only my husband’s salary to go on, one child in full-time day care (I was on bed rest) and another child on the way, the bills started to add up. We started using my credit cards to cover the extra expenses, always saying we would pay them off as soon as possible, but the balances started to add up. It didn’t help that my husband refused to even try a budget – if he wanted to eat out, he did; if there […]

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